'Safe sex is as pleasurable an experience as actual penetration. Oral sex, just things like touching somebody else's body in a very gentle way. Kissing. Appreciating one another's bodies. I think it's as much fun if not more. You concentrate on each others needs a lot more. Instead of twenty minutes of bang, bang, bang, you've got the whole night; you watch the dawn come up and you're still there. Before they know it they're converted, and they suddenly realise 'well we haven't actually done it'. [Young woman aged 21].
Sanity. But, y'know, it's possible to do the "until dawn" (or lunchtime!) thing, the non-penetrating thing and the penetrating thing for a whole lot more than twenty minutes of bang-bang! Love, G on the West side of Canada.
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